something new, something old
08.13.2013
I love weddings, especially those where I actually know the bride and groom. This was only the second wedding on my mom's side, so the entire family still had that wedding excitement. The day started at 4:30 AM! On any normal Saturday morning, I might've still been awake from the day before, but at 4:30 AM, it took me a large cup of joe to even open my eyes. However, the prepping process was fun since all the girls were in the bride's room getting our hair and makeup done. I loved how the bride, my cousin, was just caring for everyone else when she was the one getting married. Chau is so considerate like that, and I love her for it.
The first half of the day included both Vietnamese and American wedding ceremonies. Close family met at Chau's sister's (my other cousin) house to have a tea ceremony where members from each side are formally introduced and gifts are given to the bride. I appreciate how my family still upholds the traditional practices like this. There is a sense of honor and appreciation in recognizing one another's ancestry. Plus, the Vietnamese ao dai are beautiful. Then, was the ceremony in a Catholic church. The part that got me was when Chau got up and thanked her parents. It brought us to tears. After that, we went to the groom's cousin's house to have the second half of the tea ceremony.
One hour and some touch ups later, we ended up at the reception. It's crazy how packed the day was! Chau, and my new cousin, Steven are an adorable couple who love to share their love for God, life, and each other with other people. When you see them together, you can't help but saying "Awww." To introduce the new bride and groom, the entire bridal party did a dance, ending with Chau and Steven dancing to "Just the Way You Are." I mean, how cute is that? Then, Steven surprised Chau by doing a Michael Jackson dance and having family and friends join in for "Jump On It."
The day was amazing. I am so happy for Chau and Steven. They are inspirations who have taught me that true love for each other and faith in God can overcome anything from simple disagreements to life-threatening situations. Congratulations to the new happy couple!!
xoxo,
Ashley Do